{"id":631,"date":"2018-03-01T07:48:01","date_gmt":"2018-03-01T07:48:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.chatgirls.online\/?p=631"},"modified":"2018-03-01T07:48:01","modified_gmt":"2018-03-01T07:48:01","slug":"iletisimin-altin-kurallari-sohbet-hatlari","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.askimsensin.info\/?p=631","title":{"rendered":"\u0130leti\u015fimin alt\u0131n Kurallar\u0131 – Sohbet Hatlar\u0131"},"content":{"rendered":"

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\u0130leti\u015fime alt\u0131n kurallar koymak isteseydik neler s\u00f6yleyebilirdik? Sizin tabirinizce bunu \u00e7ok farkl\u0131 kaynaklardan duyabiliriz ama hi\u00e7bir zaman sorgulamay\u0131z.Bu yaz\u0131y\u0131 okuyacak olan bir \u00e7ok ki\u015fi \u015fimdiden kurallar\u0131n\u0131 belirlemi\u015ftir bile.Bana g\u00f6re bu kavram\u0131n ucu a\u00e7\u0131kt\u0131r kendisi daha daha d\u00fcnyaya g\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc a\u00e7ar a\u00e7maz bizi bir \u015feylere al\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmaya ba\u015flar.Hen\u00fcz bir bebekken bile bize en yak\u0131n olan annemizle bir aram\u0131zda bir ba\u011f olu\u015fur.Bu soyutluk boyutunda d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde biribirini seven iki ki\u015finin aras\u0131nda kendili\u011finden olu\u015fuveren sohbet hatlar\u0131<\/strong><\/a>na benzer.Yeti\u015fip b\u00fcy\u00fcrken insan y\u00fczlerini tan\u0131maya ba\u015flar onlarla da ba\u011f kurmaya ba\u015flar\u0131z.\u00d6nce karde\u015flerimizi sonra arkada\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 okulumuzu,\u00e7evremizi y\u00fczleri ezberlemeye onlarla ba\u011flant\u0131 sa\u011flamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r\u0131z.B\u00f6ylece ileti\u015fim a\u011f\u0131mz\u0131 daha da geni\u015fletmi\u015f oluruz.Tam bu s\u0131rada kendi\u011fimiz geli\u015ftirdi\u011fimiz alt\u0131n kurallar\u0131m\u0131z oturmaya ba\u015flayacakt\u0131r.her g\u00fcn bu kurallara bir yensini daha ekler beynimizi bu kurallar\u0131 ger\u00e7ek hayata ta\u015f\u0131yabilmemiz i\u00e7in e\u011fitmeye ba\u015flar\u0131z.Beyin kazand\u0131\u011f\u0131 bu e\u011fitimlere al\u0131\u015farak kendine ileti\u015fim kuraraca\u011f\u0131 ki\u015filer hakk\u0131nda bir profil yaratmaya ba\u015flar.Bu profilden yararlarak her g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc ki\u015fiye g\u00fcvenip g\u00fcvenemeyece\u011fini analiz eder yada yeni tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir insanla sohbet hatlar<\/strong>\u0131<\/a>n\u0131n olup olmayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131n sorgulamaya ba\u015flar.Belli bir tecr\u00fcbe ve al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k sonras\u0131nda herkesle hemen ileti\u015fim kuramamaya ba\u015flar.\u015e\u00f6yle d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn bir bebek etraf\u0131ndaki k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fckleri farkedemez herkesle konu\u015fur herkesin kuca\u011f\u0131na oturabilir.\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc hen\u00fcz bilin\u00e7alt\u0131 tam geli\u015fmemi\u015ftir.Beyni e\u011fitim a\u015famas\u0131ndad\u0131r.Ya\u015f\u0131 ve tecr\u00fcbeleri ilerledik\u00e7e kendini e\u011fiterek do\u011fruyu yanl\u0131\u015f\u0131,g\u00fcvenmeyi,k\u00fcsmeyi ay\u0131rt etmeye ba\u015flayabilecektir.Hayat\u0131nda olacak ki\u015fileri se\u00e7meye ba\u015flayacakt\u0131r.Sohbet etmeye ba\u015flayacak,ki\u015filerin hal ve haraketlerine ses tonlar\u0131na g\u00f6re e\u011fer onlar\u0131 hayat\u0131na al\u0131rsa mutlu olup olamayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ileriye d\u00f6n\u00fck arkada\u015fl\u0131k kurup kuramayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131n kestirebilecek.T\u00fcm bunlar\u0131 harmanlayarak alt\u0131n kurallar\u0131 ortaya \u00e7\u0131kacak.Ger\u00e7ekten i\u015fte bu kadar kolay.Yaz\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131nda bahsetti\u011fimiz kurallar\u0131 belirleme olay\u0131n\u0131n\u0131 asl\u0131nda insanlar\u0131n kendilerinin tecr\u00fcbeleriyle ortaya \u00e7\u0131kabilece\u011fini bir kez daha kan\u0131tlam\u0131\u015f olduk.Tecr\u00fcbeler her yeni g\u00fcnde sohbet hatlar\u0131<\/strong><\/a>na yeni insanlar\u0131 alacak.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u0130leti\u015fime alt\u0131n kurallar koymak isteseydik neler s\u00f6yleyebilirdik? Sizin tabirinizce bunu \u00e7ok farkl\u0131 kaynaklardan duyabiliriz ama hi\u00e7bir zaman sorgulamay\u0131z.Bu yaz\u0131y\u0131 okuyacak olan bir \u00e7ok ki\u015fi \u015fimdiden kurallar\u0131n\u0131 belirlemi\u015ftir bile.Bana g\u00f6re bu kavram\u0131n ucu a\u00e7\u0131kt\u0131r kendisi daha daha d\u00fcnyaya g\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc a\u00e7ar a\u00e7maz bizi bir \u015feylere al\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmaya ba\u015flar.Hen\u00fcz bir bebekken bile bize en yak\u0131n olan annemizle bir aram\u0131zda […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.askimsensin.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/631"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.askimsensin.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.askimsensin.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.askimsensin.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.askimsensin.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=631"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.askimsensin.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/631\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":633,"href":"https:\/\/www.askimsensin.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/631\/revisions\/633"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.askimsensin.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=631"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.askimsensin.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=631"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.askimsensin.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=631"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}